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Stephanie Constantina asked:




What would the perfect dating site be like? This is a question I began to give some thought to the other day. Here’s what I came up with.

The perfect dating site would have, amongst other things — and in my personal reckoning — the following features:

1. A very large database of members, running into millions.
The larger the database of single members, the better the chances of finding the ideal person — that’s logical, isn’t it?

2. The ability to easily search and find single people locally.
It would be no good if I had to spend as long searching as I did finding, or if there were few or no singles in my local area.

3. Good photos of the members and plenty of information about each one.
This is an ideal but of course in reality the members themselves provide their photos and write their own profiles, so this is not something within the dating site’s control.

4. A way to match me up with other singles automatically.
Personally, I prefer to search the personal profiles, but there may be days when I would like to be matched to others automatically. There are sites that use each of these approaches.

5. A way to email other members anonymously and in which personal details are protected.
Very important this, I wouldn’t want my personal details to be made available.

6. Vetting of each new member to exclude any undesirables, or married members if this is a singles site.
Of course, this will involve me being vetted too; everybody would have to be.

7. Be completely free.
Wouldn’t that be great? However, I am very well aware that dating sites are actually businesses, and all businesses exist to make a profit. So sites that claim to be completely free must be making their profits somehow (usually through advertising or persuading their members to purchase other services).

This is a kind of dream list for the ideal dating site. Are there any real dating sites that match up? Well, not completely, though there are some that come pretty close. Where most fall down would be on points 5 and 6 above, so some care must be taken by the subscriber in these areas. You can find out about which dating sites may come closest to my ideal by clicking on the links below.

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Ken Katz asked:




Dating at an older age is not too hard. And it can be a lot of fun especially with internet dating. And, today to find a date on the web is an accepted and safe form of dating.

You might be divorced and want to get back into the dating groove again. Or, you have tried the normal dating channels. You have been introduced to dates by well meaning friends or you have spent countless hours at the local Barnes & Nobles only to read lot’s of books rather than meet anyone you would want to spend a lot of time with. You are frustrated and want an easier way.

If you pick the right internet dating site you will be pleasantly surprised by how easy it is to meet fun people who share similar interests with you. And, there are so many great internet dating sites for older people to choose from.

Just go to your favorite search engine and type in the type of dating you are looking for. Try some of these keywords, ”mature dating” or ”mature dates”, ”dating over fifty” or ” dating over 50”, senior dating or maybe ”adult dating”. Also, look at the ”dating directories”. These directories have many different sites listed in various categories all with brief introductions.

Some of the larger dating sites like, eHarmony.com, Friendfinder.com or Match.com are good sites to start your dating search. All these sites welcome you to fill out your free dating profile.

eHarmony is known for its very thorough matchmaking questionnaire they ask you to fill out online. Many successful relationships started at eHarmony. And there are many older people registered in there database.

Match.com also has a very large database of both men and women looking for there ideal mate. You are sure to find a date or two here. Match.com is probably one of the largest dating sites on the internet.

Friendfinder.com is also a very large dating network. As with most of the dating sites, it is free to add your profile.

Before signing up with any of these dating sites, go to a free internet webmail site. Some of the more common ones are Hotmil.com, Yahoo.com, Gmail.com and Mail.com. There are many more to choose. Sign up for a free email account. This is the email account you will initially use to receive email from prospective dates. This is to protect your privacy until you are comfortable with your potential dates.

With so many dating site choices on the internet today, you should be able to meet many people that share similar interests. You have to make the first step and seek them out.

If you follow these simple steps you will have fun with internet dating. With so many date sites people of all ages can find a partner or two. And, even if you don’t find the person of your dreams right away, you will meet great friends that can definitely lead to lasting relationships.

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jeremyrowley asked:


Dating video by Jeremy Rowley from the Groundlings.

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prince obi asked:




Hello, my name is Prince Obi

Often time’s people find it very difficult to find someone to date or to keep their already dating one but I want to ask you this question: Who has never ever thought of looking for Mr. and Ms. Right? Certainly, not you! There always comes the point in your life that you entertain the idea of spotting the partner that you would ever imagine spending your whole life with. There’s the famed cliché that says “No man is an island”. It only goes to show that man needs other people to guarantee his existence in one lifetime. And as is the case with both a man and a woman, each needs a partner in life. How else could you achieve the realization of such dream other than by starting to date someone?

Before you proceed in dating someone, I want to tell you little about dating.

Dating is one conventional way of ending up in a commitment. A partner in life does not come out of the wave of the magic wand. You need to go through a process and that is called as dating. Dating is likewise an effective tool for courting so that you would end up reaping the fruits of your labor at the end of it all.

These days, online dating is one of the primary trends for those who are seeking for their prospect partners. Who said so that only researching and shopping have gone high tech? For one, dating services are now accessible online! Yes, you’ve read it right. The internet is your latest and most innovative comfort when it comes to finding yourself a date and soon to be partner. The best online dating services can be accessed from a multifarious websites. You simply need to key in the words “online dating services” and you would be directed to the list of websites that can provide you with such opportunities.

I promise to be posting new information on this blog so visit this it every week for new information.

Thanks and see you next week.



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ComedyTimeDir asked:


Watch Comedy Time on Sprint: www.bit.ly Last Comic Standing Finalist Iliza Shlesinger talks about how difficult dating scenes correlate to CSI series.

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Onision asked:


Emo Date from hell… you’ll see what I mean. Subscribe To: Olga Kay: youtube.com The Onision site: onision.com I really enjoyed making this video with Olga — she is super dooper cool. If you want to see more videos like this, please let me know in the comments — I appreciate you watching, rating 5, commenting, subscribing, sharing, fav’ing and showing your support/love — Really, thank you so much!

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Pax Shumway asked:




So, you’ve decided to try speed dating, but you have no idea what you are going to ask your speed dates? Here are some speed dating questions that will help you get the information you want out of potential long-term partners:

Do you believe in love at first sight?

What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?

When was your last relationship? How long did it last?

What are you looking for in a relationship?

What you don’t want in a relationship?

Which is the one job in the world that you would really like to do?

If you had three wishes, what would they be?

If you were an animal, what would you be?

If you had only six months to live, what would you do first?

If you could travel through time, what mistake would you correct in your life?

What do you do for fun?

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

Who was your hero as a child?

What makes you laugh and what makes you cry?

What are you most proud of in your life?

What is the one thing you would most like me to know about you?

What words would your friends use to describe you?

It’s not a good idea to ask your prospective date where she or he lives until you know them a little better. If possible avoid sensitive areas such as religion or politics. Remember to maintain eye contact during the conversation. Also, don’t turn the conversation into an interrogation.

It is important that you trust your gut instinct. Asking the right questions combined with your intuition will definitely help you find the man or woman of your dreams.



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Deborah Dixon asked:




Dating can be hard at times and dating during pregnancy is no exception. There are no rules to say you shouldn’t date while pregnant, it is a personal choice. Some see it as being no different to dating when you have children, while others feel it is wrong to get intimate with someone while carrying someone else’s baby. The most important thing to remember is always be honest about your pregnancy when dating someone new. Being open about your pregnancy could potentially be a turn off for some men, but others find it an attractive feature.

Deciding who to date and finding a date can be difficult anyway, but while pregnant you need to think about your baby as well as yourself. You may be attracted to the type of man who is great date material, but they may not be the type of person you would want around your new baby. Remember that it isn’t just you that this decision effects, it’s your unborn baby too. It is a good idea to outline the qualities that you are looking for in a man before you start to date. You must also decide if you are actually looking for someone who will be there for you after the baby is born. If you wish them to play a part in your baby’s life then you need to be confident in the person you find. Don’t compromise for someone who you know will be there for you and the baby, you need to make sure you have a connection with them too.

Once you have found a date, make sure that you are open about your pregnancy from the start. It is easy to hide pregnancy in the beginning, but after the first trimester it will become harder. Don’t be afraid to tell your date that you are pregnant; it is nothing to be embarrassed about. The news may be a shock to them, especially if you are in the first trimester, but telling them from the very start is a good way to find out if they are suitable for you or not. If every time you mention your baby, your date changes the subject and refuses to talk about it, then this is an obvious sign that they are not interested at all about your baby, and this type of partner is best avoided. If they are judgemental towards you, then they are definitely not worth wasting your time over. The news may initially scare some men off, but others will not even consider it an issue. Telling them simply identifies the suitable partners from the unsuitable partners.

If your date is perfect for you and is supportive about the pregnancy, it is important that you talk to him about the future. Find out his intentions for when the baby arrives, otherwise you could end up getting hurt. You need to be certain that he is there to stay and support you. Starting the relationship with honesty is the best way to have a successful relationship not only between you and your partner, but between you, your partner and your new baby.



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Rodrigo Rehn asked:




When we break up with someone we always say that we will never date again, that we just never want to experience the heart break that comes with the end of a relationship.

These are words that we have all said or thought at some time in the past, but inevitably we put our broken heart aside and we jump back on the proverbial horse again and get back into dating. After a breakup you may be hesitant to start dating again or you may feel like you have to tread softly and this is okay. You can help to make the process of getting back out there easier by telling yourself:

You’re not looking to replace your ex

You just want to have a good time you aren’t looking for a serious relationship

You deserve to go out and have fun

Being out and about will make you feel better about yourself

Your conversations while out should not mention or focus on your ex

You can learn to love again

Everyone gets hurt and everyone deserves to date again

You may meet some people who will make getting over your ex a lot easier

Getting out will brighten your spirits

You have a right to have fun even after a nasty breakup

These are some simple statements that you can tell yourself so you can get back out there with confidence. Many people feel like they shouldn’t be going out after a bad break up or that they shouldn’t be worried about dating again because they’ll never love again, but this is the wrong approach. You need to believe in the process of healing and also the possibility that you will meet someone who is so much better for you than your ex ever was. If nothing else, getting out of the house and mingling with other people will allow you to have fun and take your mind off of your broken heart.

Don’t make dating again all about your ex though, make it about you. Too many people focus on showing up their ex or making it obvious that they have moved on and there is nothing less attractive than someone who is trying to stick it to their ex. Make dating again about you and your entitlement to be happy.

This will ensure that you have a good time while you are out and that you are truly out there and having fun for the right, instead of the wrong, reasons. Dating should be fun and should be a way to explore new facets of your personality while moving away from the past and toward the future, so get out there and have some fun and leave your ex and that relationship behind you.



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