September 28, 2010
Tony Ross asked:
Dating confidence for men can be a very tricky issue. Despite what many people would think, there are lots of things that can add pressure for men when it comes to dating. Men are quite often judged by how much money they make, how nice their car is and more. Is he losing his hair, does he own his own home, etc. These pressures can and do build up and can have a strong impact on dating confidence for men. Fortunately, there are things that can be done to help in this area.
The first thing that I recommend is to work on an attitude that can resolve many of these pressures, and boost dating confidence for men. The first is to realize that many of the same sorts of pressures that are applied to men, do in fact apply to women as well. We live in a society where women have equal rights. They have jobs, own homes, own cars, have body image issues just as well as men. Knowing that women can and do have pressures, and quite likely find dating just a nerve wracking as men should help you with your confidence. She is just as likely to be nervous and self conscious as you. Knowing this should help bring with it some relief.
The bottom line here is that women do have pressures themselves around dating. The days of when men were supposed to be the only bread winner, and the pressures that go with that, are mostly gone. Both parties in the dating scene are quite likely facing the same issues, and would probably be sensitive to the others feelings. This knowledge can be used to help boost dating confidence for men.
Dating confidence for men can be a very tricky issue. Despite what many people would think, there are lots of things that can add pressure for men when it comes to dating. Men are quite often judged by how much money they make, how nice their car is and more. Is he losing his hair, does he own his own home, etc. These pressures can and do build up and can have a strong impact on dating confidence for men. Fortunately, there are things that can be done to help in this area.
The first thing that I recommend is to work on an attitude that can resolve many of these pressures, and boost dating confidence for men. The first is to realize that many of the same sorts of pressures that are applied to men, do in fact apply to women as well. We live in a society where women have equal rights. They have jobs, own homes, own cars, have body image issues just as well as men. Knowing that women can and do have pressures, and quite likely find dating just a nerve wracking as men should help you with your confidence. She is just as likely to be nervous and self conscious as you. Knowing this should help bring with it some relief.
The bottom line here is that women do have pressures themselves around dating. The days of when men were supposed to be the only bread winner, and the pressures that go with that, are mostly gone. Both parties in the dating scene are quite likely facing the same issues, and would probably be sensitive to the others feelings. This knowledge can be used to help boost dating confidence for men.
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September 25, 2010
Manuel Wiggins asked:
Most couples will have some form of dating before they become an official relationship, although in some cultures this is not necessarily true. In its simplest terms dating is an agreement for a couple to meet up and partake in some for of activity, like eating a meal or going to the cinema.
There has been much development of the traditional dating approach. The first development away from a traditional date probably occurred with the start of blind dates. Blind dates do not have a great reputation as they are often perceived as a date where friends have interfered on another person’s life. What normally happens is that people who have never met before go on a date; this could mean that the couple has nothing in common and so could easily turn into an embarrassing experience. That isn’t to say though that this form of dating cannot also be successful.
Another form of dating evolution was the speed dating phenomenon. This proved to be a great way to meet a lot of people in a short amount of time, and it is possible to meet someone whose interests match your own, and arrange a proper date at a later time. Speed dates normal work by one group of people sitting down, say women, and then men come and sit with them, when a bell goes the men move onto the next woman and the women therefore have a different person to talk to.
The advancement of technology had made it possible to get to know people without having to actually meet them. Online dating allows people to search for potential dates based on set criteria like age and interests. This form of dating may allow for compatible people to meet although having the same interests is no guarantee that a relationship can develop. Even online dating has moved on as virtual dating now occurs as well. Virtual dating is all about the creation of avatars to undertake dates in an online environment. There are many complicated settings where a virtual date could take place, and whilst some people would like it to lead to a real date, many others just like to have an internet relationship.
Dating, in what ever form it may come, is a great way to meet new people in the hope of forming a new relationship. For those in a relationship, many couple find a date with their partner is a great way to keep the relationship fresh.
Most couples will have some form of dating before they become an official relationship, although in some cultures this is not necessarily true. In its simplest terms dating is an agreement for a couple to meet up and partake in some for of activity, like eating a meal or going to the cinema.
There has been much development of the traditional dating approach. The first development away from a traditional date probably occurred with the start of blind dates. Blind dates do not have a great reputation as they are often perceived as a date where friends have interfered on another person’s life. What normally happens is that people who have never met before go on a date; this could mean that the couple has nothing in common and so could easily turn into an embarrassing experience. That isn’t to say though that this form of dating cannot also be successful.
Another form of dating evolution was the speed dating phenomenon. This proved to be a great way to meet a lot of people in a short amount of time, and it is possible to meet someone whose interests match your own, and arrange a proper date at a later time. Speed dates normal work by one group of people sitting down, say women, and then men come and sit with them, when a bell goes the men move onto the next woman and the women therefore have a different person to talk to.
The advancement of technology had made it possible to get to know people without having to actually meet them. Online dating allows people to search for potential dates based on set criteria like age and interests. This form of dating may allow for compatible people to meet although having the same interests is no guarantee that a relationship can develop. Even online dating has moved on as virtual dating now occurs as well. Virtual dating is all about the creation of avatars to undertake dates in an online environment. There are many complicated settings where a virtual date could take place, and whilst some people would like it to lead to a real date, many others just like to have an internet relationship.
Dating, in what ever form it may come, is a great way to meet new people in the hope of forming a new relationship. For those in a relationship, many couple find a date with their partner is a great way to keep the relationship fresh.
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September 23, 2010
A. Hathaway asked:
Internet Dating Investigations on the Rise
The rise in online dating worldwide has changed the way men and women meet around the globe. As more and more people become accustomed to doing business on the Internet, so too are more and more people finding romance over the Internet. New match making sites appear in the search results each week, and from the U.S. to China to Argentina, consumers are finding love online. With this new playing field, however, come sizeable risks.
Honest people seeking new relationships aren’t the only ones taking advantage of the new services. Criminals are also finding their way onto the match making websites, including major sites such as Match.com and eHarmony. No matter what a site may claim, no dating website is immune from fraud and scams. In fact, international scam cases have risen along with the rise in dating websites. And with the rise in scams and fraud, the demand for professional background checks has never been greater.
Beware of any individual overseas proclaiming his or her love prematurely. Be skeptical of any sudden emergencies that require financial assistance. If there have been no requests for money, and everything seems to be legit, consider a background check as an insurance policy. Many victims end up losing money and learning the hard way. A background check early along in the relationship can save you time and money, and also prevent you from potential heartache and emotional distress.
Several services are now available that offer international background checks and surveillance. Probably the most respected in the business is Wymoo International, which also runs a separate division for investigations in the Philippines, known as Philippine PI. Whichever firm you decide to use, consider the service an insurance policy, and when it comes to fraud and scams, it’s better to know sooner rather than later. These types of services are usually strictly confidential, so the subject will never know, and you can sleep easy!
Happy hunting,
A. Hathaway
Internet Dating Investigations on the Rise
The rise in online dating worldwide has changed the way men and women meet around the globe. As more and more people become accustomed to doing business on the Internet, so too are more and more people finding romance over the Internet. New match making sites appear in the search results each week, and from the U.S. to China to Argentina, consumers are finding love online. With this new playing field, however, come sizeable risks.
Honest people seeking new relationships aren’t the only ones taking advantage of the new services. Criminals are also finding their way onto the match making websites, including major sites such as Match.com and eHarmony. No matter what a site may claim, no dating website is immune from fraud and scams. In fact, international scam cases have risen along with the rise in dating websites. And with the rise in scams and fraud, the demand for professional background checks has never been greater.
Beware of any individual overseas proclaiming his or her love prematurely. Be skeptical of any sudden emergencies that require financial assistance. If there have been no requests for money, and everything seems to be legit, consider a background check as an insurance policy. Many victims end up losing money and learning the hard way. A background check early along in the relationship can save you time and money, and also prevent you from potential heartache and emotional distress.
Several services are now available that offer international background checks and surveillance. Probably the most respected in the business is Wymoo International, which also runs a separate division for investigations in the Philippines, known as Philippine PI. Whichever firm you decide to use, consider the service an insurance policy, and when it comes to fraud and scams, it’s better to know sooner rather than later. These types of services are usually strictly confidential, so the subject will never know, and you can sleep easy!
Happy hunting,
A. Hathaway
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September 15, 2010
Rhonda Ray asked:
Dating through the internet has never been this easier since more and more people are now connected online than ever before. There is a dating website available for everyone and anyone who feels that they need them. If you are new to dating online, there are just a few things that you need to know so that your dating experience would be fun and worry free.
When you register to these website that offer dating services, be sure that you read everything carefully and what kind of website you are joining. You do not want to join in something that you are totally against of something that you have totally no interest in as it can provides you with a lot of headaches and you would have just wasted your time registering something that you will not be using. When you are filling out the registration form, take note of the information you are providing. You do not want to be providing unnecessary information or information about you that can cause trouble. Remember the information you provide in these sites are often available for other members to see unless otherwise stated by the registration form as confidential.
Once you’re done with the registration and start checking out other people’s profile, you will see that others will be looking at yours as well and others would send a message of introduction if they are interested. Don’t make the mistake of meeting up right away with these people and use some common sense and get to know them. You do not want to fall victim to people who use these sites for unscrupulous things. Dating in the internet is very similar to dating in the real world.
Dating through the internet has never been this easier since more and more people are now connected online than ever before. There is a dating website available for everyone and anyone who feels that they need them. If you are new to dating online, there are just a few things that you need to know so that your dating experience would be fun and worry free.
When you register to these website that offer dating services, be sure that you read everything carefully and what kind of website you are joining. You do not want to join in something that you are totally against of something that you have totally no interest in as it can provides you with a lot of headaches and you would have just wasted your time registering something that you will not be using. When you are filling out the registration form, take note of the information you are providing. You do not want to be providing unnecessary information or information about you that can cause trouble. Remember the information you provide in these sites are often available for other members to see unless otherwise stated by the registration form as confidential.
Once you’re done with the registration and start checking out other people’s profile, you will see that others will be looking at yours as well and others would send a message of introduction if they are interested. Don’t make the mistake of meeting up right away with these people and use some common sense and get to know them. You do not want to fall victim to people who use these sites for unscrupulous things. Dating in the internet is very similar to dating in the real world.
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Pauline Go asked:
In today’s world dating is a common word among people who love to post their profile and upload their photographs on social networking sites, friendship sites and/or dating sites. But even before the evolution of the Internet, people were familiar with dating in a more traditional way. Dating has evolved from supervised dating to one night stands. A brief history on dating in America will help us to know more about the differences of dating between past and the present times.
Until the early 1800s, marriages were considered more seriously than dating; marriages were based on social standings and not based on couple’s attraction or “love at first sight”. The late 1800s saw a transition in dating as it became more formal. Approval from parents was needed. At this time dating was synonymous with romantic relationship or courtship.
In the early 1900s dating between couples were supervised by their parents. Guardians observed the interaction and discussion between couples. The girl’s mother invited the boy to her house and chaperoned the meeting. This period witnessed a trend in public dating.
The mid 1900s saw a great change in the style and values of dating, People came to know about each other through dating and were more influenced by their peers and they determined the rules of dating. People were more influenced by movies and advertisements. There was no “supervision” and interactions between couples were without any commitment. Dating became synonymous with dancing as dancing on the first date was considered for a more serious relationship.
Dating became common among high school students during the 50s and the 60s as there were more weekly dating, exchange of phone calls and physical intimacy which led to early marriages among couples. Prior importance was given to love and this was considered as a main reason for a happier marriages.
Presently dating has become more synonymous with infidelity as married couples are having affairs with either their colleagues or “old school friends”. Thanks to the online revolution and transition in thinking!
In today’s world dating is a common word among people who love to post their profile and upload their photographs on social networking sites, friendship sites and/or dating sites. But even before the evolution of the Internet, people were familiar with dating in a more traditional way. Dating has evolved from supervised dating to one night stands. A brief history on dating in America will help us to know more about the differences of dating between past and the present times.
Until the early 1800s, marriages were considered more seriously than dating; marriages were based on social standings and not based on couple’s attraction or “love at first sight”. The late 1800s saw a transition in dating as it became more formal. Approval from parents was needed. At this time dating was synonymous with romantic relationship or courtship.
In the early 1900s dating between couples were supervised by their parents. Guardians observed the interaction and discussion between couples. The girl’s mother invited the boy to her house and chaperoned the meeting. This period witnessed a trend in public dating.
The mid 1900s saw a great change in the style and values of dating, People came to know about each other through dating and were more influenced by their peers and they determined the rules of dating. People were more influenced by movies and advertisements. There was no “supervision” and interactions between couples were without any commitment. Dating became synonymous with dancing as dancing on the first date was considered for a more serious relationship.
Dating became common among high school students during the 50s and the 60s as there were more weekly dating, exchange of phone calls and physical intimacy which led to early marriages among couples. Prior importance was given to love and this was considered as a main reason for a happier marriages.
Presently dating has become more synonymous with infidelity as married couples are having affairs with either their colleagues or “old school friends”. Thanks to the online revolution and transition in thinking!
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September 11, 2010
George Wood asked:
Many of us have wanted to visit adult dating sites at some point during the time we stay online each day. There are many adult dating sites out there, some of which are top-rated due to their enormous visitor traffic and excellent user reviews. A few of these sites are reviewed below, which will help you decide for the one you want to join.
Golden Flirt – One of the most-visited adult dating sites today is the Golden Flirt. It has over 15,000 registered users who have their online profiles other people can view and comment on. There is a monthly competition going on over it which rates one girl and 1 guy a ‘Top-100′ and describes them to be bold and extremely daring. You can create a profile of your own, search for people who are currently online and view popular blogs. You can have photo, audio and video albums of your own. There are so many other applications to choose from on this site that you will never get bored!
Casual Kiss – Another popular adult dating site is the Casual Kiss. It has many interesting features including live video feeds, instant messaging, chat, a feature to comment on other people’s profiles freely, and many more. If you want to try it before joining you can enter the site as a guest and browse through profiles to find out what other applications are available for you to benefit from. It also has a section on horoscope, blogs, confessions and dreams.
Love Dating – For all of us out there seeking new friends, lovers or soul-mates, Love Dating is a place to be in! A creative and easy-to-use search strategy where you only have to provide your sex preference, age and country, with the help of which you can find the one you are looking for. The site selects a special profile randomly and displays it on the homepage everyday for others to easily access it. The forums can be visited in English, Italian, Russian, Chinese and Korean. It has over 200,000 registered users.
One Forever – One Forever is a free online dating service for singles out there who want to meet their soul-mate online. Like other dating sites you can search for profiles easily whether you are a man or a woman and create a profile of your own for others to view. You can limit your search by providing your country and see how many single men and women are looking for the same kind of relationship that you are seeking. You can mention in your profile whether you’re looking for a committed relationship, dating, casual relationship or just want to be friends.
Swapper Net – This is also one of the top-rated adult dating sites. It has over 1, 408, 046 registered users! Although it’s not completely free, it does offer a 30-day free trial for all those who just want to have a taste of an online dating site. Its features include personal ads with pictures, detailed searches, groups of friends and forums, parties and events and many more.
Many of us have wanted to visit adult dating sites at some point during the time we stay online each day. There are many adult dating sites out there, some of which are top-rated due to their enormous visitor traffic and excellent user reviews. A few of these sites are reviewed below, which will help you decide for the one you want to join.
Golden Flirt – One of the most-visited adult dating sites today is the Golden Flirt. It has over 15,000 registered users who have their online profiles other people can view and comment on. There is a monthly competition going on over it which rates one girl and 1 guy a ‘Top-100′ and describes them to be bold and extremely daring. You can create a profile of your own, search for people who are currently online and view popular blogs. You can have photo, audio and video albums of your own. There are so many other applications to choose from on this site that you will never get bored!
Casual Kiss – Another popular adult dating site is the Casual Kiss. It has many interesting features including live video feeds, instant messaging, chat, a feature to comment on other people’s profiles freely, and many more. If you want to try it before joining you can enter the site as a guest and browse through profiles to find out what other applications are available for you to benefit from. It also has a section on horoscope, blogs, confessions and dreams.
Love Dating – For all of us out there seeking new friends, lovers or soul-mates, Love Dating is a place to be in! A creative and easy-to-use search strategy where you only have to provide your sex preference, age and country, with the help of which you can find the one you are looking for. The site selects a special profile randomly and displays it on the homepage everyday for others to easily access it. The forums can be visited in English, Italian, Russian, Chinese and Korean. It has over 200,000 registered users.
One Forever – One Forever is a free online dating service for singles out there who want to meet their soul-mate online. Like other dating sites you can search for profiles easily whether you are a man or a woman and create a profile of your own for others to view. You can limit your search by providing your country and see how many single men and women are looking for the same kind of relationship that you are seeking. You can mention in your profile whether you’re looking for a committed relationship, dating, casual relationship or just want to be friends.
Swapper Net – This is also one of the top-rated adult dating sites. It has over 1, 408, 046 registered users! Although it’s not completely free, it does offer a 30-day free trial for all those who just want to have a taste of an online dating site. Its features include personal ads with pictures, detailed searches, groups of friends and forums, parties and events and many more.
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September 1, 2010
David Butler asked:
Dating a friend or just thinking about it? Many wonder if it’s a good idea if best friends date one another. So what do you think? I know the cynical among us may agree with that line from When Harry Met Sally, “that a man and a woman can’t really be just friends.” But that’s the topic of another article. Let’s get back to the issue of whether or not friends should date.
One of the driving forces behind friendship dating is the saying that “the best of friends make the best of lovers.” Yes, there are no easy answers here. But if you are planning to take the plunge and date a friend, you should at least be cognizant of the following:
* Dating a friend changes the complexion of that friendship forever. If it doesn’t work out, there will be awkwardness even if you attempt to remain friends. If things do work out, your platonic friendship (which does have unique benefits) has moved to a different level. Sooo… you need to contemplate whether you’re willing to risk that great present friendship for uncharted waters that may lead to disaster.
* Remember, while you may actually love that girl or guy, there is always the possibility of unrequited love.
When your friend has different expectations than you do, dating that friend is probably a bad idea from the get go.
Overall, please don’t get the idea that we are dissing dating a friend. We are not. Dating a friend, if things go well, can be one of the most exciting and thrilling things happen in a relationship. While some friends who date are ideal soul mates for each other, most of these relationships do not last. Just be willing to count the cost.
Dating a friend or just thinking about it? Many wonder if it’s a good idea if best friends date one another. So what do you think? I know the cynical among us may agree with that line from When Harry Met Sally, “that a man and a woman can’t really be just friends.” But that’s the topic of another article. Let’s get back to the issue of whether or not friends should date.
One of the driving forces behind friendship dating is the saying that “the best of friends make the best of lovers.” Yes, there are no easy answers here. But if you are planning to take the plunge and date a friend, you should at least be cognizant of the following:
* Dating a friend changes the complexion of that friendship forever. If it doesn’t work out, there will be awkwardness even if you attempt to remain friends. If things do work out, your platonic friendship (which does have unique benefits) has moved to a different level. Sooo… you need to contemplate whether you’re willing to risk that great present friendship for uncharted waters that may lead to disaster.
* Remember, while you may actually love that girl or guy, there is always the possibility of unrequited love.
When your friend has different expectations than you do, dating that friend is probably a bad idea from the get go.Overall, please don’t get the idea that we are dissing dating a friend. We are not. Dating a friend, if things go well, can be one of the most exciting and thrilling things happen in a relationship. While some friends who date are ideal soul mates for each other, most of these relationships do not last. Just be willing to count the cost.
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August 23, 2010
Tiffany Provost asked:
Age is not an issue with regards to dating like it was before. Even being from a different generation, mostly these can be safe relationships. As a teenage girl you need to be on your guard when dating an older man as there could be serious risks. Remember the rules of safe dating if you discover you are interested in an older man.
Age is not an issue with regards to dating like it was before. Even being from a different generation, mostly these can be safe relationships. As a teenage girl you need to be on your guard when dating an older man as there could be serious risks. Remember the rules of safe dating if you discover you are interested in an older man.
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August 4, 2010
Ken Katz asked:
Dating at an older age is not too hard. And it can be a lot of fun especially with internet dating. And, today to find a date on the web is an accepted and safe form of dating.
You might be divorced and want to get back into the dating groove again. Or, you have tried the normal dating channels. You have been introduced to dates by well meaning friends or you have spent countless hours at the local Barnes & Nobles only to read lot’s of books rather than meet anyone you would want to spend a lot of time with. You are frustrated and want an easier way.
If you pick the right internet dating site you will be pleasantly surprised by how easy it is to meet fun people who share similar interests with you. And, there are so many great internet dating sites for older people to choose from.
Just go to your favorite search engine and type in the type of dating you are looking for. Try some of these keywords, ”mature dating” or ”mature dates”, ”dating over fifty” or ” dating over 50”, senior dating or maybe ”adult dating”. Also, look at the ”dating directories”. These directories have many different sites listed in various categories all with brief introductions.
Some of the larger dating sites like, eHarmony.com, Friendfinder.com or Match.com are good sites to start your dating search. All these sites welcome you to fill out your free dating profile.
eHarmony is known for its very thorough matchmaking questionnaire they ask you to fill out online. Many successful relationships started at eHarmony. And there are many older people registered in there database.
Match.com also has a very large database of both men and women looking for there ideal mate. You are sure to find a date or two here. Match.com is probably one of the largest dating sites on the internet.
Friendfinder.com is also a very large dating network. As with most of the dating sites, it is free to add your profile.
Before signing up with any of these dating sites, go to a free internet webmail site. Some of the more common ones are Hotmil.com, Yahoo.com, Gmail.com and Mail.com. There are many more to choose. Sign up for a free email account. This is the email account you will initially use to receive email from prospective dates. This is to protect your privacy until you are comfortable with your potential dates.
With so many dating site choices on the internet today, you should be able to meet many people that share similar interests. You have to make the first step and seek them out.
If you follow these simple steps you will have fun with internet dating. With so many date sites people of all ages can find a partner or two. And, even if you don’t find the person of your dreams right away, you will meet great friends that can definitely lead to lasting relationships.
Dating at an older age is not too hard. And it can be a lot of fun especially with internet dating. And, today to find a date on the web is an accepted and safe form of dating.
You might be divorced and want to get back into the dating groove again. Or, you have tried the normal dating channels. You have been introduced to dates by well meaning friends or you have spent countless hours at the local Barnes & Nobles only to read lot’s of books rather than meet anyone you would want to spend a lot of time with. You are frustrated and want an easier way.
If you pick the right internet dating site you will be pleasantly surprised by how easy it is to meet fun people who share similar interests with you. And, there are so many great internet dating sites for older people to choose from.
Just go to your favorite search engine and type in the type of dating you are looking for. Try some of these keywords, ”mature dating” or ”mature dates”, ”dating over fifty” or ” dating over 50”, senior dating or maybe ”adult dating”. Also, look at the ”dating directories”. These directories have many different sites listed in various categories all with brief introductions.
Some of the larger dating sites like, eHarmony.com, Friendfinder.com or Match.com are good sites to start your dating search. All these sites welcome you to fill out your free dating profile.
eHarmony is known for its very thorough matchmaking questionnaire they ask you to fill out online. Many successful relationships started at eHarmony. And there are many older people registered in there database.
Match.com also has a very large database of both men and women looking for there ideal mate. You are sure to find a date or two here. Match.com is probably one of the largest dating sites on the internet.
Friendfinder.com is also a very large dating network. As with most of the dating sites, it is free to add your profile.
Before signing up with any of these dating sites, go to a free internet webmail site. Some of the more common ones are Hotmil.com, Yahoo.com, Gmail.com and Mail.com. There are many more to choose. Sign up for a free email account. This is the email account you will initially use to receive email from prospective dates. This is to protect your privacy until you are comfortable with your potential dates.
With so many dating site choices on the internet today, you should be able to meet many people that share similar interests. You have to make the first step and seek them out.
If you follow these simple steps you will have fun with internet dating. With so many date sites people of all ages can find a partner or two. And, even if you don’t find the person of your dreams right away, you will meet great friends that can definitely lead to lasting relationships.
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August 1, 2010
Stephanie Constantina asked:
What would the perfect dating site be like? This is a question I began to give some thought to the other day. Here’s what I came up with.
The perfect dating site would have, amongst other things — and in my personal reckoning — the following features:
1. A very large database of members, running into millions.
The larger the database of single members, the better the chances of finding the ideal person — that’s logical, isn’t it?
2. The ability to easily search and find single people locally.
It would be no good if I had to spend as long searching as I did finding, or if there were few or no singles in my local area.
3. Good photos of the members and plenty of information about each one.
This is an ideal but of course in reality the members themselves provide their photos and write their own profiles, so this is not something within the dating site’s control.
4. A way to match me up with other singles automatically.
Personally, I prefer to search the personal profiles, but there may be days when I would like to be matched to others automatically. There are sites that use each of these approaches.
5. A way to email other members anonymously and in which personal details are protected.
Very important this, I wouldn’t want my personal details to be made available.
6. Vetting of each new member to exclude any undesirables, or married members if this is a singles site.
Of course, this will involve me being vetted too; everybody would have to be.
7. Be completely free.
Wouldn’t that be great? However, I am very well aware that dating sites are actually businesses, and all businesses exist to make a profit. So sites that claim to be completely free must be making their profits somehow (usually through advertising or persuading their members to purchase other services).
This is a kind of dream list for the ideal dating site. Are there any real dating sites that match up? Well, not completely, though there are some that come pretty close. Where most fall down would be on points 5 and 6 above, so some care must be taken by the subscriber in these areas. You can find out about which dating sites may come closest to my ideal by clicking on the links below.
What would the perfect dating site be like? This is a question I began to give some thought to the other day. Here’s what I came up with.
The perfect dating site would have, amongst other things — and in my personal reckoning — the following features:
1. A very large database of members, running into millions.
The larger the database of single members, the better the chances of finding the ideal person — that’s logical, isn’t it?
2. The ability to easily search and find single people locally.
It would be no good if I had to spend as long searching as I did finding, or if there were few or no singles in my local area.
3. Good photos of the members and plenty of information about each one.
This is an ideal but of course in reality the members themselves provide their photos and write their own profiles, so this is not something within the dating site’s control.
4. A way to match me up with other singles automatically.
Personally, I prefer to search the personal profiles, but there may be days when I would like to be matched to others automatically. There are sites that use each of these approaches.
5. A way to email other members anonymously and in which personal details are protected.
Very important this, I wouldn’t want my personal details to be made available.
6. Vetting of each new member to exclude any undesirables, or married members if this is a singles site.
Of course, this will involve me being vetted too; everybody would have to be.
7. Be completely free.
Wouldn’t that be great? However, I am very well aware that dating sites are actually businesses, and all businesses exist to make a profit. So sites that claim to be completely free must be making their profits somehow (usually through advertising or persuading their members to purchase other services).
This is a kind of dream list for the ideal dating site. Are there any real dating sites that match up? Well, not completely, though there are some that come pretty close. Where most fall down would be on points 5 and 6 above, so some care must be taken by the subscriber in these areas. You can find out about which dating sites may come closest to my ideal by clicking on the links below.
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